First you forget names.
Then you forget faces.
Then you forget to pull up your zipper.

It's worse when you forget to pull it down!

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Just the 2 of us for the first time

Merry Christmas

It dawned on me this evening that with Margo traveling here from Flagstaff today and choosing to stay tonight in Tucson so she can watch her nieces open gifts Christmas morning, tomorrow will be the first time in our nearly 30 year marriage that Rod and I have been childless on Christmas morning. For the last 5 years we have at least had Margo here. Our very first Christmas as married folk in Green River, WY included 24-day-old Nora. I guess I will have to watch an old family Christmas morning-mayhem video to relive those crazy years with 6 children clamoring to open their gifts. That is, after sleeping in until ~~ dare I? ~~ 9:00 AM.

Not to worry. The majority of them will be here later in the day complete with 6 excited granddaughters. Sadly, Trevor and family will not be here. We plan on visiting them next week in Apache Junction which is near Mesa/Phoenix and about 2 1/2 hours from here. While there we will also take time to see the lights at the Mesa Temple and hopefully attend a temple session , too.

Rod spent about 2 hours this afternoon cutting mesquite wood with the chain saw for our traditional Christmas day fire in the fireplace. Those who have never been near a mesquite wood fire, it's the best -- burns hot and long. Luckily(?) the weather is suppose to cooperate and be cold and rainy.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

A nice place to visit, but forget about living here (except in the summer)

We spent 3 days in Flagstaff enjoying(?) the snow, but, most especially, visiting with Margo. We arrived Friday night around 9 PM and went to Margo's apartment. Flagstaff had received about a foot of snow earlier in the week and the majority of parking lots in the city were not cleared as thoroughly as needed. So there were large ice and snow mounds everywhere. We parked next to Margo's car on top of some icy snow. An hour later we decided we'd better head to our motel. As I was backing out, the back of the truck started to slide towards Margo's car. I quickly stopped, pulled forward to try a better angle, but because of a huge mound of frozen snow in front of us, I couldn't move very far. I tried backing up again but even with Rod outside to guide me, the truck again slid and when I stopped, it gently "kissed" Margo's car. Now what were we to do? Margo was pulled up as far as she could be and because of the angle of the truck against her car, she couldn't back up. I suggested we try to remove about a foot of the 2-foot high frozen snow pile in front of Margo's car and then push her car forward and maybe that would give us enough room to back the truck up. Of course, the temperature was in the 20's and the water on the asphalt, in addition to the ice already there, was quickly freezing. So with a large plastic (plastic -- to chop ice?) snow shovel Margo had borrowed (because every store she checked in Flagstaff was sold out of shovels), Rod and I started chopping away at the mound of snow. Even though it was after 10:00 at night, Margo went to get her home teacher who lives in the same complex to see if he could help, which he did. He even got his tire chains to put under the truck tires for better traction on the asphalt. Well, my solution worked. After about 20 minutes of chopping, shoveling, and chain-placing, we were successful in getting the truck backed up and, upon inspection of both vehicles, no damage done. If I had been thinking, I would have taken pictures of all the fun. After that, we made sure to park away from other cars.

Saturday was sunny and warm (43`) so we took a drive to Lake Mary about 10 miles south of Flag. Margo reports this is where the city gets its water supply.


Sunday, the first day of winter, was also sunny and beautiful. Then, on Monday, winter made itself known once again. We left for home at 1 PM with a temp of 29 and near blizzard conditions. About 30 miles out of Flag, there was absolutely no snow anywhere. Then, four hours later, we are in Tucson and it is 63`. It was warmer than Phoenix had been. This trip just reminds us why we choose to live in southern Arizona.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

No mother-in-law jokes, please

My mother-in-law is an absolutely amazing woman. Today is her 84th birthday and anyone who knows her says she looks and acts 20 years younger. In the family picture above, she is at the far left.
I admire her so much because she hasn't let all the tragedies and trials of her life get her down. I love her mainly because she raised an incredible son that I have been married to for going on 30 years. I love you, Mom!

Friday, December 12, 2008

The Teacher (or Mother, Father, Parent)

I saw this on a bulletin board at the school where I work and thought it very profound. Just insert the word "Mother / Father / Parent" in place of "teacher" and "home" in place of "classroom".

"I've come to a frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element in the classroom. It's my personal approach that creates the climate. It's my daily mood that makes the weather. As a teacher, I possess a tremendous power to make a child's life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration. I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis will be escalated or de-escalated and a child humanized or de-humanized." ~~ Hiam Ginott

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

He's Back ----------

----- to work, that is. Yesterday Rod was given the clearance to return to work although he still does not have complete range of motion with his right arm yet. The DR has limited him in doing any overhead work because he can barely get his arm above his shoulder at present. He went back today and will work this week and next and then have two weeks off on vacation (already scheduled). He is continuing with occupational therapy twice a week for at least another month.

Saturday, December 6, 2008

?? December ??

When did it get to be December? Christmas gift-giving this year will be less monetarily but greater in thought. As with many, the economic slumb -- um, free-fall -- has hit us, too. Where, or where, is our IRA and 401K going? And with medical bills from Rod's accident in the mix, OUCH! Luckily, we are debt free and have well-paying jobs (at least Rod does). He goes to the DR on Monday and we expect him to be given the OK to return to work on light duty on Tuesday. The timing is great. He will work 9 days and then take the two weeks vacation at Christmas he already has scheduled before heading back to work on Jan 5. The occupational therapy continues with strength exercises beginning.

We went to Tucson last night and decided to get a living tree for Christmas - one that we will plant outside in the spring. It is a drought-resistant Aleppo pine and is a nice shape. Because it is small - about 4' tall - we just have lights on it. In spite of the 70 degree weather we have been having, mornings are cold >30 and frosty and the evenings have a nip that, along with the wood smoke smell from fireplaces, gives you a feeling the holidays are close.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Happy Birthday to our Firstborn

Has it really been 29 years since that early morning in Green River, Wyoming, when we knew you were on your way. Back in "those days" we didn't have ultrasounds to determine the sex. But once your Dad and I picked out the girl name, we knew you would be a girl. We are proud of the woman you have become and all that you have accomplished. WOW! Know that you are loved and appreciated by us.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Thanksgiving

Here's hoping your Thanksgiving was as feastful as ours.
All 6 of our children plus their significant others and children (minus Riley's girlfriend and 2 of our granddaughters) were here. Rod's sister, Teresa, and her family also came. We did the traditional feast at "Grandma's" house (Rod's mom) and had a abundance of good food.
As usual, we overdid on the pie making. Nora alone made 12 pies - 7 pumpkin, 2 apple, 1 cherry, and 2 banana cream and Rod's mom provided three fresh pecan pies. The pecans come from her own trees. Two days before, Rod cut up and steamed a very large pumpkin then pureed it in the blender. We never use store-bought canned pumpkin for our pies. Nora also does the apple pies from scratch. She adds some sugar, cinnamon, and cloves to the sliced Granny Smith apples and lets it sit for the apple juices to flow. She then pours off the juices into a pan and heats it up to carmelize it. After the apples are put into the shell, she drizzles the "carmel" over the apples before placing the top crust on. DELICIOUS!!! Our banana cream is made with homemade vanilla pudding, too.
Please click on this link to view photos taken during the day
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.beh4hlhf&x=0&h=1&y=8zoqtl&localeid=en_US

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Did you know? Tylenol formulas

Here is some needed information for anyone with young children or grandchildren that Nora sent me.
http://www.epinions.com/review/Infants_Tylenol_Concentrated_Drops/well-review-2C57-3A67EA4-397F5541-prod6

The new Mr. and Mrs

Introducing Mr. and Mrs.
Michael and Michelle Anderson

After much time and effort, the wedding of our son Michael to Michelle Baugh on Nov. 8 went smoothly. They wanted an outdoor ceremony to be held in Grandma Anderson's front yard. Our weather in November can be very unpredictable but you couldn't have scheduled a more beautiful day.
Michelle had many family members travel here from Wyoming, Colorado and Pennsylvania. They all camped out in RV's and pop-up trailers in our field. On our side, my sisters came down from Utah (escaping the new snow they had just received) and all of our progeny, minus one granddaughter, were here, too. What a houseful. You can view a few of the many photos taken that day here -------> http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.afzfu3yj&x=0&h=1&y=-bx6dg5&localeid=en_US
Our grown-up family ~~ Margo, Riley, Trevor, the DAD, newest daughter Michelle, Michael, the MOM, Derek, Nora





Monday, November 3, 2008

Best get finished . . .

I can't believe I haven't finished telling about our DC trip. There are still two days of sites we saw to report on.

Friday, October 17 ~~ the weather turned decidedly fall-like, at least for the DC area. Where daytime temps had been in the low 80's, this day proved to be in the low 60's with a fairly good breeze blowing. Rod and I ventured north across the Pennsylvania border and visited a battlefield site from the Civil War -- Gettysburg.

July 1-3, 1863, 165,000 soldiers met on the 6,000 acre battlefield. More than 51,000 became casualties. This was the northern-most point the Confederate Army fought. Just over 3 months later, Pres. Lincoln came to dedicate the new national cemetary at Gettysburg delivering his most famous speech.

I'll leave you to look up any information about this conflict but I found it very interesting. I understand it can be very hot and humid in this area during the summer and knowing how hot and humid it can be in Arizona in July, I tried to imagine what fighting conditions were like back then; having to walk miles, fighting under terrifying circumstances, and the smell of the thousands of decaying bodies. Hopefully you can read some of the information panels shown in the photos I took

Later that evening we picked up Martin and Sybil and drove to Vienna, again, to visit my cousin David Van Valkenburg and to finally meet his family. It had been over 10 years since I last saw him. We were treated to a wonderful Chinese dinner (his wife is Chinese). He has been doing research on the Van Valkenburg line and said he did not have a photo of our Grandfather who died while our parents were very young. I knew I had one from Grandma Van's family photos now in my possession. When I got home, I actually remembered to look for them and was able to send him copies. He is getting ready to publish a book on his findings.

Saturday, October 18 ~~ Departure day. Our flight wasn't scheduled to leave until 3 PM so we were able to go back to the Mall and visit two museums. We briefly visited the National Museum of the American Indian and then went to the National Air and Space Museum. Having grown up during the "space race", I was interested in seeing the displays. We could easily spent hours there. There is an auxillary museum located in Virginia with larger displays and planes.
I saw the space capsule in which John Glenn first orbited the earth on Feb. 20, 1962 (the day I was baptized) -- seen here ---------------------->
and the Apollo 11 capsule for the first walk on the moon. Talk about being claustrophobic. I remember watching the moon walk happen with my family.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

We interrupt this travelog . . .

Trevor sent us some photos of his family. When I saved them to my pictures file, they came out very small so these may be hard to see.

Here is Kyleigh Fae with older sister, Alexis - age 4. The creature above them is their pet iguana.
Trev didn't bother to indicate how old Kyleigh is in these photos but she will be 2 months old on Nov. 3.

By the Sea, By the Sea, By the Beautiful Atlantic Ocean


Thursday, Oct. 16 ~~ With being as far east as we were, I insisted on traveling to see the Atlantic Ocean. Rod had seen it before, even swam in it, when he was stationed in Massachusetts during his Army stint back in the early '70's. It was about a 140 mile drive from our hotel to Ocean City, MD. What a beautiful day for a trip to the beach -- low 80's, gentle ocean breeze, hardly any people (off-season) and we parked about 100 yards from the sand. I waded in the waves, picked up a few interesting shells, and thoroughly enjoyed the time there.
On the way back, we drove north along the coast of Delaware where most houses are built on pylons. There is a lot of beautiful countryside and farm land throughout Delaware, Maryland, and Virginia.
More photos are at:

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Temple trip

Wednesday, October 15 ~~ When we decided to take this vacation, a visit to the Washington DC Temple was top on our list of "things to see". And what is seeing the temple without attending a session. Today was the day.


It is roughly a 30 minute drive from where we were staying depending on the ever-present traffic (unless you take a wrong exit, which, of course, I did). Monday night we took a trial drive to see it at night, and, as is typical, I didn't take my camera. Too bad, too, because near the Visitors' Center I spotted a deer grazing under a tree. Rod is not eager to see any deer anywhere ever again. (Note: I saw one today on Pomerene Road, but it was already dead) Back to the temple - It is a magnificent site at night. The session we attended was very small - only 7 sisters and 5 brethren - but uplifting as usual.
More photos here:
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.1j9k0qvf&x=0&h=1&y=-v03hcc&localeid=en_US

That evening we met up with Martin and Sybil again and went to dinner at a popular place near their apartment that serves Mexican food. It was good, but not spicy enough for our tastes. And this coming from a girl that, as a child, would never eat anything "foreign".

Pentagon and Arlington

Tuesday, October 14 ~~ All the walking and standing done on Monday took its toll on the injured one (and my feet) so we decided to go easy today. We decided to give the Metro train system a try so we wouldn't have to bother about traffic, the crazy street system here, and finding parking spaces and paying to use them.

First stop -- The Pentagon

The Pentagon Memorial recently opened to visitors. It is in honor of the 184 men, women, and children killed in the 9-11 attack. While most of the memorials to be seen are about events I learned about in school, this, along with the Vietnam Memorial seen yesterday, represent lives lost during events that I was around for. This one, especially, hit home because I saw 9-11 unfold while watching TV.
That morning I was awakened by my radio alarm clock with news of a plane hitting the World Trade Center. Curious, I got up and turned on one of the morning news shows. Just a random accident - or so everyone thought. Then, many of us watched stunned as the second plane hit. Later, word came that the Pentagon was attacked in the same fashion. Our country was attacked. Those memories came back as I wandered through this memorial. Pictures are available here for viewing:
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.bmjcwmej&x=0&h=1&y=-8b709r&localeid=en_US
Back on the Metro to visit
Our country has many national cemeteries where soldiers and their families may be buried. But perhaps the most famous of them is Arlington. Here we took a tourmobile. We were lucky to witness a full military honors funeral procession - Air Force. Our guide said this honor is reserved for high-ranking personnel. An honor guard accompanies the flag-draped coffin sitting on a caisson(?) drawn by 4 matched horses (1 riderless). A band was also present.
We visited Kennedy's burial site with the eternal flame and The Tomb of the Unknowns. At the Tomb, the Third U.S. Infantry maintains an around the clock guard. The sentinel paces 21 steps down the mat before the tomb, turns to face the tomb, pauses 21 seconds, turns and again waits 21 seconds before walking back the 21 paces, turns to face the tomb, waits 21 sec, turns again to wait 21 sec. and begins the process again. He does this for an hour. The changing of the guard takes place every hour in a very precise ceremony. There are over 320,000 servicemen, beginning with the Civil War, and their families buried here with an average of 27 burials every weekday. It is an impressive site. Check out the photos at: http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.1mil09qj&x=0&h=1&y=-dloaal&localeid=en_US

After resting up a few hours, we took a drive to try our luck at finding that fruit stand we saw Sunday so we could buy some apples. No luck. I knew we were close but I couldn't find the street it was on.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

The National Mall

Monday, October 13 (Columbus Day) - Today we tackled the Metro train system and Mall walking. It is 2 miles from the Capitol on the east end to the Lincoln Memorial on the west end. We got off the Metro near the middle and met Martin and Sybil there. I couldn't believe how long the Mall was. I thought everything was more compact. We knew we were in for a long, tiring day and would never be able to see even half of what we wanted to. So we chose to walk the western half beginning at the center point. (We went back on Saturday to see more of the eastern section so look for that post later.)

The Washington Monument is at the center of the Mall.
We gazed at its towering height surrounded by U S flags then headed toward the World War II Memorial. This is a large area to view and we found interesting sculpture and many inscriptions to read. We also visited the Vietnam War Memorial, the black wall inscribed with all the dead and MIA soldiers from that long conflict. We found the name of a young man killed during that war who was from our community, Clifford Kent Coons. Two of Rod's brothers also served in Vietnam and made it back alive.

The Lincoln Memorial was impressive. I knew the statue of Lincoln seated was big, but it is HUGE! At the top of the steps is an inscription marking where Martin Luther King, Jr. stood while making his "I have a dream" speech. By this time we were all getting tired. Martin and Sybil headed one way to catch their train, and Rod and I started the 1-mile trek back to where we began. Before calling it a day, we did manage to visit one museum -- The United States Holocaust Memorial Museum. Photographs are not allowed to be taken inside, so sorry, nothing to show you. We could have spent 2-3 hours in there but our tiredness limited our time spent. It was a very eye-opening and moving experience, though.
View other photos of our Mall visit at
Here is a story e-mailed to me by Rod's Aunt Betty. It fit beautifully with our visit to the Holocaust Museum I am including it here.

A Girl With An Apple
(This is a true story and you can find out more by Googling Herman Rosenblat. He was Bar Mitzvahed at age 75)

August 1942. Piotrkow , Poland .
The sky was gloomy that morning as we waited anxiously. All the men, women and children of Piotrkow's Jewish ghetto had been herded into a square.
Word had gotten around that we were being moved. My father had only recently died from typhus, which had run rampant through the crowded ghetto. My greatest fear was that our family would be separated.
"Whatever you do," Isidore, my eldest brother, whispered to me, "don't tell them your age. Say you're sixteen.”
"I was tall for a boy of 11, so I could pull it off. That way I might be deemed valuable as a worker.
An SS man approached me, boots clicking against the cobblestones. He looked me up and down, and then asked my age.
"Sixteen," I said. He directed me to the left, where my three brothers and other healthy young men already stood.
My mother was motioned to the right with the other women, children, sick and elderly people.
I whispered to Isidore, "Why?"
He didn't answer.
I ran to Mama's side and said I wanted to stay with her.
"No, "she said sternly.
"Get away. Don't be a nuisance. Go with your brothers."
She had never spoken so harshly before. But I understood: She was protecting me. She loved me so much that, just this once, she pretended not to. It was the last I ever saw of her.
My brothers and I were transported in a cattle car to Germany .
We arrived at the Buchenwald concentration camp one night weeks later and were led into a crowded barrack. The next day, we were issued uniforms and identification numbers.
"Don't call me Herman anymore." I said to my brothers. "Call me 94983."
I was put to work in the camp's crematorium, loading the dead into a hand-cranked elevator.
I, too, felt dead. Hardened, I had become a number.
Soon, my brothers and I were sent to Schlieben, one of Buchenwald's sub-camps near Berlin .
One morning I thought I heard my mother's voice.
"Son," she said softly but clearly, I am going to send you an angel."
Then I woke up. Just a dream. A beautiful dream.
But in this place there could be no angels. There was only work. And hunger. And fear.
A couple of days later, I was walking around the camp, around the barracks, near the barbed-wire fence where the guards could not easily see. I was alone.
On the other side of the fence, I spotted someone: a little girl with light, almost luminous curls. She was half-hidden behind a birch tree.
I glanced around to make sure no one saw me. I called to her softly in German. "Do you have something to eat?"
She didn't understand.
I inched closer to the fence and repeated the question in Polish. She stepped forward. I was thin and gaunt, with rags wrapped around my feet, but the girl looked unafraid. In her eyes, I saw life.
She pulled an apple from her woolen jacket and threw it over the fence.
I grabbed the fruit and, as I started to run away, I heard her say faintly, "I'll see you tomorrow."
I returned to the same spot by the fence at the same time every day. She was always there with something for me to eat - a hunk of bread or, better yet, an apple.
We didn't dare speak or linger. To be caught would mean death for us both.
I didn't know anything about her, just a kind farm girl, except that she understood Polish. What was her name? Why was she risking her life for me?
Hope was in such short supply, and this girl on the other side of the fence gave me some, as nourishing in its way as the bread and apples.
Nearly seven months later, my brothers and I were crammed into a coal car and shipped to Theresienstadt camp in Czechoslovakia ..
"Don't return," I told the girl that day. "We're leaving."
I turned toward the barracks and didn't look back, didn't even say good-bye to the little girl whose name I'd never learned, the girl with the apples.
We were in Theresienstadt for three months. The war was winding down and Allied forces were closing in, yet my fate seemed sealed.
On May 10, 1945, I was scheduled to die in the gas chamber at 10:00 AM.
In the quiet of dawn, I tried to prepare myself. So many times death seemed ready to claim me, but somehow I'd survived. Now, it was over.
I thought of my parents. At least, I thought, we will be reunited.
But at 8 A.M. there was a commotion. I heard shouts, and saw people running every which way through camp. I caught up with my brothers.
Russian troops had liberated the camp! The gates swung open. Everyone was running, so I did too. Amazingly, all of my brothers had survived;
I'm not sure how. But I knew that the girl with the apples had been the key to my survival.
In a place where evil seemed triumphant, one person's goodness had saved my life, had given me hope in a place where there was none.
My mother had promised to send me an angel, and the angel had come.
Eventually I made my way to England where I was sponsored by a Jewish charity, put up in a hostel with other boys who had survived the Holocaust and trained in electronics. Then I came to America , where my brother Sam had already moved. I served in the U. S. A rmy during the Korean War, and returned to New York City after two years.
By August 1957 I'd opened my own electronics repair shop. I was starting to settle in.
One day, my friend Sid who I knew from England called me.
"I've got a date. She's got a Polish friend. Let's double date."
A blind date? Nah, that wasn't for me.
But Sid kept pestering me, and a few days later we headed up to the Bronx to pick up his date and her friend Roma.
I had to admit, for a blind date this wasn't so bad. Roma was a nurse at a Bronx hospital. She was kind and smart. Beautiful, too, with swirling brown curls and green, almond-shaped eyes that sparkled with life.
The four of us drove out to Coney Island . Roma was easy to talk to, easy to be with.
Turned out she was wary of blind dates too!
We were both just doing our friends a favor. We took a stroll on the boardwalk, enjoying the salty Atlantic breeze, and then had dinner by the shore. I couldn't remember having a better time.
We piled back into Sid's car, Roma and I sharing the backseat.
As European Jews who had survived the war, we were aware that much had been left unsaid between us. She broached the subject, "Where were you," she asked softly, "during the war?"
"The camps," I said. The terrible memories still vivid, the irreparable loss. I had tried to forget. But you can never forget.
She nodded. "My family was hiding on a farm in Germany , not far from Berlin ," she told me. "My father knew a priest, and he got us Aryan papers."
I imagined how she must have suffered too, fear, a constant companion. And yet here we were both survivors, in a new world.
"There was a camp next to the farm." Roma continued. "I saw a boy there and I would throw him apples every day."
What an amazing coincidence that she had helped some other boy. "What did he look like? I asked.
"He was tall, skinny, and hungry. I must have seen him every day for six months."
My heart was racing. I couldn't believe it.
This couldn't be.
"Did he tell you one day not to come back because he was leaving Schlieben?"
Roma looked at me in amazement. "Yes!"
"That was me!"
I was ready to burst with joy and awe, flooded with emotions. I couldn't believe it! My angel.
"I'm not letting you go." I said to Roma. And in the back of the car on that blind date, I proposed to her. I didn't want to wait.
"You're crazy!" she said. But she invited me to meet her parents for Shabbat dinner the following week.
There was so much I looked forward to learning about Roma, but the most important things I always knew: her steadfastness, her goodness. For many months, in the worst of circumstances, she had come to the fence and given me hope. Now that I'd found her again, I could never let her go.
That day, she said yes. And I kept my word. After nearly 50 years of marriage, two children and three grandchildren, I have never let her go.
Herman Rosenblat of Miami Beach , Florida

This story is being made into a movie called The Fence.
This e-mail is intended to reach 40 million people world-wide.


Sunday in Virginia

On Sunday of our DC trip, we went to a ward about 5 miles from our hotel, Crystal City Ward. It was a fairly large ward with a lot of young families. Relief Society was so large we met in the chapel and then divided into two classes. The meetinghouse was a large, two-story, colonial-looking red-brick building. We enjoyed our visit there.

In the afternoon, we drove to Martin and Sybil's apartment and and they directed my driving (I did all the driving because of Rod's injuries) on a tour of Vienna, VA, where they had previously lived. We saw their old house and some beautiful semi-rural areas with lush foliage. They showed us a popular fresh produce open-air market that had a wide variety of locally grown apples. Rod and I went back later in the week to purchase some apples to bring home. We got Winesap, Nittany ?, York, Jonagold. Very good apples.
We went to dinner at a Thai restaurant - a first for Rod and me. We found the food to our liking. Then it was back to the hotel to rest for the long day of site-seeing ahead of us.

As we were planning this vacation, we decided that with such a long hotel stay we wanted to be sure and have comfortable beds to sleep in. Radisson has "select-comfort" beds (you know, the ones were you pick you level of firmness) like we have at home so we splurged and chose to stay there. We had requested a regular room with a king bed. When we checked in, we were informed there were no king rooms available and we had been upgraded to a suite. Because we had already paid for the room (it was a package deal purchased back in June) we didn't have to pay anything extra. However, the only thing "suite" about the room was it was large and had a couch and two comfortable easy chairs. The bathroom was the usual small hotel room size. And, you had two choices when it came to parking your car -- on the street with metered parking during the day ($1.00/hr 6 AM - 6 PM with a 2-hour limit) or pay $18/day in the parking garage. We chose the latter. We also used the Metro train system to maneuver DC. It was comfortable and roomy but, by the end of our stay, we were glad to be headed home.

Marine Corps Memorial

Saturday, October 11 ~~ We left Tucson, AZ at 7:00 AM PDT, had a 1-hour layover/plane change in Atlanta, GA, and arrived at Reagan National Airport at 4:00 PM EDT. We were greeted by warm weather, beautiful skies, and my brother, Martin, and his wife, Sybil. After getting our one checked bag and acquiring our rental car (which they upgraded from a mid-size to a luxury - a Mercury Grand Marquix - without added expence) we went on a short sight-seeing excursion.
My choice, because it was close and easily accessed, was the Marine Corps Memorial. It is also known as the Flag-raising on Iwo Jima. Arlington National Cemetary is right next to it and we saw a small portion of it from outside the wall but we decided to save that tour for another day as we were tired from the long trip. We did venture by car into DC that evening to see the White House at night, but you will see those photos in a later blog. Enjoy the few photos taken of this impressive memorial at

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Our Nation's Capitol

The Capitol - Washington, D.C.

We are back from our trip to Washington, D.C. and enjoyed seeing the sites. Because we saw so much and took so many photos, I will be writing several posts over the next few days highlighting areas of interest. Check in to see what we saw.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

How's Rod doing?

I get asked that at least twice a day. As you can see, for a man with 5 broken ribs and shoulder blade, he's doing OK. He has moderate shoulder pain and has a hard time getting a good night's sleep with his back hurting. He went to a follow-up Dr. visit Monday and was given the news that he will be off work 2-3 months. Apparently the shoulder break, while not needing surgery, is quite uncommon. The bone at the top of the scapula is fractured (hardly ever happens) and then the fracture travels downward to about the middle of the shoulder blade itself. He will be starting physical therapy as soon as they can work him in. Luckily it can be done in Benson instead of having to travel to Tucson twice a week.

All of his abrasions, except knees, are healed. His knees will need at least another week for complete recovery. Now we just wait to see how much our insurance will pay and what our part will be. I hope we don't have to take out a home equite loan, but with the helicopter ride to Tucson, who knows.

We will be flying to DC on Saturday. It should be interesting for Rod being cramped in an airplane seat for 3-4 hours on the flight from Tucson to Atlanta. He may have to pace the aisles. Still debating whether to take the laptop with us so I can blog our vacation.





"Dr" Abbey tending to Grandpa's wounds
She is interested in all things medical.

Family fun

Well, I blew it again. We had almost the whole family here this past Sunday to celebrate our Sep-Oct birthdays (Michelle - age 21, Riley - 23, Caitlyn - 5, and Christy - 30 [the forever age]) Can you believe it? In taking pictures throughout the day, NOT ONE did I get of Caitlyn or Danica. Plenty of Emma, Abbey, Isabel and Olivia and even a few of the adults, but not a single shot includes my Wyoming-born sweeties. Well, they will be staying with us after Michael and Michelle's wedding so Derek and Christy can have a concert date and I will take exclusive photos then. So, enjoy the few I've loaded here and then go to the link to see the rest.

Emma and Abbey staying interested in General Conference with activity pages. Olivia and Isabel playing with Aunt Margo.


Making Caitlyn's birthday cake. Nora making the fondant (melted marshmallows, powdered sugar and water), Christy cutting out the "Mario" pattern and Derek painting on the finishing touches.
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Sunday, September 28, 2008

Pictures (viewing caution advised)

Here are some photos of the motorcycle accident. Sorry, the deer was unavailable. If you are squeamish with seeing icky sores, avoid the last few photos.

I'm starting off gently. These are flowers sent to Rod in the hospital from his employer, Sierra Southwest.












The motorcycle is missing its windshield (installed new last week), headlamp (also new), right valve cover to the engine, plus scrapes to various parts and a few bent places. Rod will use parts off of this motorcycle to get its twin running -- after he heals, of course.

Imagine these scrapes on his helmet applied to his face as well as any skull fractures that may have happened. There are scrapes on the left side, too. If the impact of his falling broke 5 ribs and his shoulder blade (which, upon researching, seldom happens except in high impact accidents), we hate to think what condition he would be in had he not been wearing a good helmet.
ALWAYS WEAR A HELMET WHEN RIDING MOTORCYCLES, ATV's, BICYCLES

This bruise started showing on Friday and has continued to grow. Amazing he didn't have any internal bleeding.





His right arm is looking a lot better. Remember, these injuries have had 5 days healing time. The bruise is just beginnign to surface. He keeps this arm in a sling to minimize shoulder pain.









The right knee is less damaged than the left. The ointment used to dress his abrasions is the same used for burn victims. There is a bruise forming on the outside left knee. His left foot has also started to swell but has no bruising. Other roadrash areas are scabbed over. I read in the Tucson paper yesterday about a man who lost control of his motorcycle while riding on the dirt shoulder of a road. He was not wearing a helmet and was killed. We feel so blessed that our husband, father, grandfather, son, and brother is still here with us.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Riley's Birthday

Happy Birthday #23 today to our youngest son, Riley. Rodney is slowly improving and is producing more colorful bruises. He has a beauty on his right side and another on his left knee.
Yesterday when I got off work, Rod and I drove 40 miles east of here to Willcox and paid the hostage payment of $220 to recover his motorcycle from the tow company. BTW, it's not in too bad of shape considering it flattened a deer and skidded on the highway for a few hundred feet. Rod figured that price was worth recovering it just to use for the very expensive parts on it. He'll use them to get his other bike up and running. Yup. He still plans on riding, probably just not to work. Anyway, when Riley got home from work, he came over to unload the bike from our pickup. I asked how his day had been. Guess how he celebrated his birthday a day early? By getting in an accident on his way to work.
He was driving down a major Tucson street at about 5:00 AM in a company truck when a lightning strike took out all the lights in the area. Having no traffic lights to indicate intersections and being pitch black, Riley realized too late that he was in one when he saw a small truck coming at him from the cross road. He tried to avoid it but was broadsided in the passenger door. He says the girl driving must have been going about 50 in a 35 zone. With no traffic lights to say who had the right of way and him almost through the intersection, the fault will probably be the other driver's. Luckily, the truck he was driving was a very large, heavy truck. He has no injuries other than a possible bruise where he hit the door handle on impact. If fact, when he was walking around after the police arrived, he had to let them know he was the other driver. The officer responded they thought the girl had hit a pole. Riley pointed to his truck and said he was what she hit.
Talked to Trevor today. He says Kyleigh is doing great. We had planned on visiting them today and going to the temple but Rodney's adventure has delayed that plan. He also had Tabatha at his place as well as Alexis. He is going to try and get off work so they can all come to Michael's wedding.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Healing at home

Finally --- Rod is home as of 5:00 PM today with a bucket full of meds -- pain management (love that Percocet), poop-shooter control (because of the plugging-up the pain meds do), and muscle relaxing meds for those muscles attached to the ribs and shoulder.
The discharge diagnosis on the release papers states: Right scapula (shoulder blade) and scapula neck fracture, right rib fractures 3-8 (back ribs). His right arm is in a sling to help with the shoulder and upper arm pain. He really has no pain from his ribs when breathing deeply or coughing. He goes back in 7-10 days for a follow-up and until then, no work. His instuctions include "no weight bearing to the right upper extremity. No heavy lifting. Several times each day take your arm out of the sling, flex and extend your arm at the elbow in order to avoid contractures, and then replace the sling. Stay out of bed as much as possible, nap only when tired, walk around as much as possible to minimize risk of pnemonia and blood clots. No driving while on the pain meds.
When I change the dressings on his road rash, I'll try to remember to take pictures (except the one on his "cheek") so you can see some of the damage but it's looking a lot better than the first day already. His knees are the worst.
Everyone keeps asking about the deer and Rod didn't see it after hitting it. Today I went to the Highway Patrol office here in Benson to find out where his motorcycle was taken. The officer that helped me said he was the first officer on the scene so I asked him about the deer. He said it was dead on the side of the road about where Rod ran into it. Didn't ask how big it was but another officer that was helping lives in our ward so I will ask him if he saw it and how big it was.
Luckily Rod has plenty of long-term sick leave accumulated so we won't have to worry about not getting paid for the days he has to be away from work. And I will ask RS help with lunches for him while I am at work next week.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

So much for the motorcycle

This is going to be short because it's late and I need to get to bed.
Yesterday (Tuesday) morning at 6:00 AM Rod was driving his new motorcycle to work on the freeway when a deer darted in front of him -- yes, we have lots of deer in our area. Two hours later I get a call at work from a number I do not recognize so I ignore it. Five minutes later the same number calls and I figure I had better answer. Good thing because it's my dear husband telling me he is in the emergency room at University (of Arizona) Medical Center in Tucson, the result of the deer encounter.
To be brief, his new helmet saved his head from any injury but the rest of his body didn't fair as well. In spite of wearing leather gloves and a fairly heavy coat, he has bad road rash on the top of both hands and up his right arm, both knees, this right shoulder and a few other places. He also has 5 broken back ribs and a broken right scapula (shoulder blade). So far the ribs are not hindering his breathing any but the shoulder is keeping him from being able to raise or use his right arm. They are keeping him in the hospital mainly for observation to keep pnemonia from developing. I will be at the hospital today, too, and will update on this site as more information is given.
All of our Tucson children and their spouses came to see him while he was still in the ER. Riley was working in Tucson so got off early and came to see him this afternoon. Billy and a ward member who happened to be at the hospital gave him a blessing. The main thing Rod has been saying about this accident, which happened just after a hill and curve in the road, is he is grateful, thankful, and blessed, that he was not run over by traffic -- semis -- coming up behind him or he would have been killed. He had to get up and stumble off the freeway. It also took a good 5 minutes or more before anyone stopped to help him and call for help - his cell phone is lost among the weeds. Please remember him in your thoughts and prayers.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

SHE'S HERE !


Announcing the birth of our newest granddaughter on Wednesday, Sept. 3, 2008 at 2:40 PM in Mesa, AZ.
KYLEIGH FAE ANDERSON
8 lb 15 oz and 20" long






Happy parents are Trevor and Tiffanie

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Sunday, August 31, 2008

She's not here yet

Today was set as Granddaughter #8's (Trevor and Tiffanie's) possbile arrival date, but as of 5:00 PM MST (or PDT because AZ does not observe daylight savings time changes), we have yet to receive word she is on her way. I will post her arrival, complete with pictures providing I remember to take my camera, within 24 hours of her birth. In the meantime, check out the newer photo of Trevor's other daughter, Tabatha, located on the sidebar. It was taken last December near her 3rd birthday.
Rod took parts from one motorcyle to replace corresponding ones not working on the other and has one of his two recent acquisitions running smoothly. He is enjoying it.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Been a while since I played Tag

Ok, Nora. Because it doesn't involve any running, I'll play Tag this time. Rod kept asking why I was taking the pictures I was taking.
I'm giving advance notice to my tagees -- Margo (Use your roommates for #8), Kristen, D, Kim, Sorry, I don't have a 5th. I don't trade blogs with that many people, or at least ones who haven't already been tagged.
RULES: You have to take a photo of each of the 10 things listed -- and you have to do it right away. No Cheating either! You can't go rearrange furniture or hide all the dirty dishes in the cupboard. And no posing your kids into doing things they should be doing, like homework or chores. Then, if you want, tag 5 of your own.
#1 Your refrigerator - no indication whether outside or inside view is required so I did both. I really like this style of fridge. We've had it about 3 years.









#2 The Laundry Room - airing out the washer after load was finished. There are cabinets and a counter in this room, too. I love my front-loading washer. Wish it had been affordable when all the kids were at home. So economical - A LOT less water, detergent and electricity.


#3 The Bathroom - again, which one? I could of done the one currently not is use and thus almost spotlessly clean, but I swallowed my guilt and did our master bath, but only part of it. We also have a garden tub which we never use. Clothes have been sorted - one pile in the sink -ready for the washer.





#4 The Closet - I'm assume you mean mine. We have a walk-in and I just photoed my half.










#5 The Kitchen Sink (and dishwasher). Clean dishes are waiting
patiently to be put away so dirty ones can take their place. With just the two of us, it takes almost a week to fill the dishwasher.




#6 Self-portrait. If my camera breaks with this one, the game ends here.
Apparently it didn't break. I'm normally not that orange but between the light over the computer table and the flash not going off, it has given me that citrus glow. At least I used the timer so I don't have that holding-the-camera-at-armslength look.

#7 Favorite room in the house - no brainer. It's the room addition I designed and Rod built about 13 years ago - our Family Room. I insisted on a wood-burning, flame-seeing, I-can-hear-sap-popping fireplace. It's great on the infrequent cold evenings. This room is perfect for setting up the eighth baby quilt I've made/am making (quilting, not tying) for granddaughter #8 due the end of this month. In the design plans we also included a 6' x 20' food storage room behind the wall with the bookcase.
In the right photo are my piano and rolltop desk. These two pieces of furniture were the first debts (other than my '76 Mustang) I incurred upon getting my first teaching job after graduating from BYU in April 1976. I started teaching 3 days after graduation.
I like lots of light but most of the original house is dark except for the south-facing dining room window (you can see it in the above photo) and each bedroom has one large window. We removed a window (notice the space above the piano?) when we built the family room. These windows face west and north. The front door is just to the left of the small bookcase. A smaller window to the left of the front door looks out onto the large porch.

#8 What are your kids doing right now? Well. . . . I don't know.
Hopefully behaving themselves. They have all flown the nest. But, the hubby was home from work so I did him. He is putting on the finishing touches to go Home Teaching. What a man !!

#9 Dream Vacation

AUSTRALIA
No need to say more.




Finally, #10 My favorite pair of shoes.
None. I only wear footwear when I have to go out and then they come off as soon as I am at home hence my shoes are usually in the kitchen. Notice the "tan" legs between the socks and capri pants white lines? That's from 9 days of half hour bus duty I have after school in the hot Arizona sun.
That's all for now.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Brief update and health article

Friday Rod and I surprised Nora and family by showing up at Gale Elementary's annual before-school-starts-meet-the-teacher ice cream social. That's where Emma and Abbey attend school. We were already in Tucson for other reasons. Hard to believe the twins will be 6 months old on Thursday. They are SOOOO cute. Then yesterday we made a longer journey to Apache Junction about 20 miles east of Mesa and visited with Trevor and Tiffanie at their baby shower. We hadn't seen them in over a year. Baby Kyleigh Fae is due August 31 and I plan on making the mad dash to the hospital when the call comes that granddaughter #8 is on her way. We also got to see our future (but we already regard her as) #9 granddaughter, Alexis (Lexie) who is Tiffanie's 4-year-old daughter and she remembered us. It was a nice visit.
Because it is such a long drive and gas expense, we decided to attend the temple, too, and were able to do a sealing session that evening. When we got out of the temple at about 8:00 PM, it was still close to 100 degrees even though the sun had set a half hour prior. UGH! Then we tried out a Mexican food restaurant that several in our ward raved about for after-temple dining. Personally, we did not care for it that much -- not spicy enough. And this is from me who, as a youth, would NEVER eat anything closely resembling spicy or Mexican. And further on this subject line, Rod and I only rarely consume soda at home but indulge when eating out. But after reading the article in this link,

http://health.msn.com/health-topics/articlepage.aspx?cp-documentid=100212344&page=1
(read both pages),

I think I will stick with water from now on not wanting to risk kidney stones having already suffered the effects of gallstones -- bye-bye gall bladder. AND I already have diabetes and high blood pressure (hypertension). Especially scary were the comments on the "five-second rule" and "double-dipping" when I am known to do. It's amazing I am not dead yet.

Monday, August 4, 2008

Granddaughters visit again

Because their last visit with us was so short, Caitlyn and Danica stayed with us again this past weekend before Grandma has to start back to work on Wednesday. Caitlyn is a very interesting and intelligent "old" 4-year-old. She saw buckets of bubblegum at the store and asked, "Grandma, why does that say 'Double Bubble'?" She likes to play "imagination" which varies greatly depending on what her imagination conjures up. And she like to play "I Spy" during car rides. When she wants to tell you -- just you -- something, she'll say, "Give me your ear." When you bend down to her, she will hold your ear while whispering the information.
Danica will be 18 months old on the 21st and is very inquisitive. . . you know - into everything. She jabbers in her own language and when she smiles, you melt. The girls went to church with us Sunday for the entire 3-hr block. Both were well-behaved. Danica easily went into Nursery but I had to go with Caitlyn to Primary for the first 10 minutes until she saw what it was all about and felt comfortable staying there on her own. During the welcome visitor song, she helped lead the music and got to be a helper during sharing time. On the way home after church, Caitlyn said the next time they came for a long visit she wanted to go to church again. After church, Caitlyn had fun playing with Great-grandma who was a real sport in allowing Caitlyn to squirt her with a squirt gun. The G-G had Danica laughing while playing with her. Danica has the cutest laugh.
Check out the other photos taken of their visit plus a few from Margo's last Saturday with us at
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.cifgprv7&x=1&h=1&y=hxj7es&localeid=en_US

Dark clouds rolled in and threatened rain. The clouds pictured here didn't give us any but we received quite a bit later that evening. Because these clouds dumped heavy rain to the east of us, during the night our wash flooded again but not too bad. We currently have a lot of standing water in the wash right behind our house so hopefully the mosquitoes won't get too bad. If you take garlic supplements (hey nephews - remember the Yellowstone trip?) it is suppose to ward off the little blood-suckers.
Rod went out at about 9:00 to see how hard it was raining and found a common desert-dweller next to our front porch.

Behold -- a young rattlesnake. Out came the shovel and -- CHOP! There was also a large toad near the house under the bug zapper but I didn't get a good pic of it. They like to eat the "fried" bugs that fall to the ground. These Colorado River toads only come out from underground when it rains heavily and then we get to hear the loud croaking chorus. It can get quite loud. Some of them can get quite large - about 8 inches in diameter.