First you forget names.
Then you forget faces.
Then you forget to pull up your zipper.

It's worse when you forget to pull it down!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

We interrupt this travelog . . .

Trevor sent us some photos of his family. When I saved them to my pictures file, they came out very small so these may be hard to see.

Here is Kyleigh Fae with older sister, Alexis - age 4. The creature above them is their pet iguana.
Trev didn't bother to indicate how old Kyleigh is in these photos but she will be 2 months old on Nov. 3.

By the Sea, By the Sea, By the Beautiful Atlantic Ocean


Thursday, Oct. 16 ~~ With being as far east as we were, I insisted on traveling to see the Atlantic Ocean. Rod had seen it before, even swam in it, when he was stationed in Massachusetts during his Army stint back in the early '70's. It was about a 140 mile drive from our hotel to Ocean City, MD. What a beautiful day for a trip to the beach -- low 80's, gentle ocean breeze, hardly any people (off-season) and we parked about 100 yards from the sand. I waded in the waves, picked up a few interesting shells, and thoroughly enjoyed the time there.
On the way back, we drove north along the coast of Delaware where most houses are built on pylons. There is a lot of beautiful countryside and farm land throughout Delaware, Maryland, and Virginia.
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Saturday, October 25, 2008

Temple trip

Wednesday, October 15 ~~ When we decided to take this vacation, a visit to the Washington DC Temple was top on our list of "things to see". And what is seeing the temple without attending a session. Today was the day.


It is roughly a 30 minute drive from where we were staying depending on the ever-present traffic (unless you take a wrong exit, which, of course, I did). Monday night we took a trial drive to see it at night, and, as is typical, I didn't take my camera. Too bad, too, because near the Visitors' Center I spotted a deer grazing under a tree. Rod is not eager to see any deer anywhere ever again. (Note: I saw one today on Pomerene Road, but it was already dead) Back to the temple - It is a magnificent site at night. The session we attended was very small - only 7 sisters and 5 brethren - but uplifting as usual.
More photos here:
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.1j9k0qvf&x=0&h=1&y=-v03hcc&localeid=en_US

That evening we met up with Martin and Sybil again and went to dinner at a popular place near their apartment that serves Mexican food. It was good, but not spicy enough for our tastes. And this coming from a girl that, as a child, would never eat anything "foreign".

Pentagon and Arlington

Tuesday, October 14 ~~ All the walking and standing done on Monday took its toll on the injured one (and my feet) so we decided to go easy today. We decided to give the Metro train system a try so we wouldn't have to bother about traffic, the crazy street system here, and finding parking spaces and paying to use them.

First stop -- The Pentagon

The Pentagon Memorial recently opened to visitors. It is in honor of the 184 men, women, and children killed in the 9-11 attack. While most of the memorials to be seen are about events I learned about in school, this, along with the Vietnam Memorial seen yesterday, represent lives lost during events that I was around for. This one, especially, hit home because I saw 9-11 unfold while watching TV.
That morning I was awakened by my radio alarm clock with news of a plane hitting the World Trade Center. Curious, I got up and turned on one of the morning news shows. Just a random accident - or so everyone thought. Then, many of us watched stunned as the second plane hit. Later, word came that the Pentagon was attacked in the same fashion. Our country was attacked. Those memories came back as I wandered through this memorial. Pictures are available here for viewing:
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.bmjcwmej&x=0&h=1&y=-8b709r&localeid=en_US
Back on the Metro to visit
Our country has many national cemeteries where soldiers and their families may be buried. But perhaps the most famous of them is Arlington. Here we took a tourmobile. We were lucky to witness a full military honors funeral procession - Air Force. Our guide said this honor is reserved for high-ranking personnel. An honor guard accompanies the flag-draped coffin sitting on a caisson(?) drawn by 4 matched horses (1 riderless). A band was also present.
We visited Kennedy's burial site with the eternal flame and The Tomb of the Unknowns. At the Tomb, the Third U.S. Infantry maintains an around the clock guard. The sentinel paces 21 steps down the mat before the tomb, turns to face the tomb, pauses 21 seconds, turns and again waits 21 seconds before walking back the 21 paces, turns to face the tomb, waits 21 sec, turns again to wait 21 sec. and begins the process again. He does this for an hour. The changing of the guard takes place every hour in a very precise ceremony. There are over 320,000 servicemen, beginning with the Civil War, and their families buried here with an average of 27 burials every weekday. It is an impressive site. Check out the photos at: http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=18s0ijij.1mil09qj&x=0&h=1&y=-dloaal&localeid=en_US

After resting up a few hours, we took a drive to try our luck at finding that fruit stand we saw Sunday so we could buy some apples. No luck. I knew we were close but I couldn't find the street it was on.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

The National Mall

Monday, October 13 (Columbus Day) - Today we tackled the Metro train system and Mall walking. It is 2 miles from the Capitol on the east end to the Lincoln Memorial on the west end. We got off the Metro near the middle and met Martin and Sybil there. I couldn't believe how long the Mall was. I thought everything was more compact. We knew we were in for a long, tiring day and would never be able to see even half of what we wanted to. So we chose to walk the western half beginning at the center point. (We went back on Saturday to see more of the eastern section so look for that post later.)

The Washington Monument is at the center of the Mall.
We gazed at its towering height surrounded by U S flags then headed toward the World War II Memorial. This is a large area to view and we found interesting sculpture and many inscriptions to read. We also visited the Vietnam War Memorial, the black wall inscribed with all the dead and MIA soldiers from that long conflict. We found the name of a young man killed during that war who was from our community, Clifford Kent Coons. Two of Rod's brothers also served in Vietnam and made it back alive.

The Lincoln Memorial was impressive. I knew the statue of Lincoln seated was big, but it is HUGE! At the top of the steps is an inscription marking where Martin Luther King, Jr. stood while making his "I have a dream" speech. By this time we were all getting tired. Martin and Sybil headed one way to catch their train, and Rod and I started the 1-mile trek back to where we began. Before calling it a day, we did manage to visit one museum -- The United States Holocaust Memorial Museum. Photographs are not allowed to be taken inside, so sorry, nothing to show you. We could have spent 2-3 hours in there but our tiredness limited our time spent. It was a very eye-opening and moving experience, though.
View other photos of our Mall visit at
Here is a story e-mailed to me by Rod's Aunt Betty. It fit beautifully with our visit to the Holocaust Museum I am including it here.

A Girl With An Apple
(This is a true story and you can find out more by Googling Herman Rosenblat. He was Bar Mitzvahed at age 75)

August 1942. Piotrkow , Poland .
The sky was gloomy that morning as we waited anxiously. All the men, women and children of Piotrkow's Jewish ghetto had been herded into a square.
Word had gotten around that we were being moved. My father had only recently died from typhus, which had run rampant through the crowded ghetto. My greatest fear was that our family would be separated.
"Whatever you do," Isidore, my eldest brother, whispered to me, "don't tell them your age. Say you're sixteen.”
"I was tall for a boy of 11, so I could pull it off. That way I might be deemed valuable as a worker.
An SS man approached me, boots clicking against the cobblestones. He looked me up and down, and then asked my age.
"Sixteen," I said. He directed me to the left, where my three brothers and other healthy young men already stood.
My mother was motioned to the right with the other women, children, sick and elderly people.
I whispered to Isidore, "Why?"
He didn't answer.
I ran to Mama's side and said I wanted to stay with her.
"No, "she said sternly.
"Get away. Don't be a nuisance. Go with your brothers."
She had never spoken so harshly before. But I understood: She was protecting me. She loved me so much that, just this once, she pretended not to. It was the last I ever saw of her.
My brothers and I were transported in a cattle car to Germany .
We arrived at the Buchenwald concentration camp one night weeks later and were led into a crowded barrack. The next day, we were issued uniforms and identification numbers.
"Don't call me Herman anymore." I said to my brothers. "Call me 94983."
I was put to work in the camp's crematorium, loading the dead into a hand-cranked elevator.
I, too, felt dead. Hardened, I had become a number.
Soon, my brothers and I were sent to Schlieben, one of Buchenwald's sub-camps near Berlin .
One morning I thought I heard my mother's voice.
"Son," she said softly but clearly, I am going to send you an angel."
Then I woke up. Just a dream. A beautiful dream.
But in this place there could be no angels. There was only work. And hunger. And fear.
A couple of days later, I was walking around the camp, around the barracks, near the barbed-wire fence where the guards could not easily see. I was alone.
On the other side of the fence, I spotted someone: a little girl with light, almost luminous curls. She was half-hidden behind a birch tree.
I glanced around to make sure no one saw me. I called to her softly in German. "Do you have something to eat?"
She didn't understand.
I inched closer to the fence and repeated the question in Polish. She stepped forward. I was thin and gaunt, with rags wrapped around my feet, but the girl looked unafraid. In her eyes, I saw life.
She pulled an apple from her woolen jacket and threw it over the fence.
I grabbed the fruit and, as I started to run away, I heard her say faintly, "I'll see you tomorrow."
I returned to the same spot by the fence at the same time every day. She was always there with something for me to eat - a hunk of bread or, better yet, an apple.
We didn't dare speak or linger. To be caught would mean death for us both.
I didn't know anything about her, just a kind farm girl, except that she understood Polish. What was her name? Why was she risking her life for me?
Hope was in such short supply, and this girl on the other side of the fence gave me some, as nourishing in its way as the bread and apples.
Nearly seven months later, my brothers and I were crammed into a coal car and shipped to Theresienstadt camp in Czechoslovakia ..
"Don't return," I told the girl that day. "We're leaving."
I turned toward the barracks and didn't look back, didn't even say good-bye to the little girl whose name I'd never learned, the girl with the apples.
We were in Theresienstadt for three months. The war was winding down and Allied forces were closing in, yet my fate seemed sealed.
On May 10, 1945, I was scheduled to die in the gas chamber at 10:00 AM.
In the quiet of dawn, I tried to prepare myself. So many times death seemed ready to claim me, but somehow I'd survived. Now, it was over.
I thought of my parents. At least, I thought, we will be reunited.
But at 8 A.M. there was a commotion. I heard shouts, and saw people running every which way through camp. I caught up with my brothers.
Russian troops had liberated the camp! The gates swung open. Everyone was running, so I did too. Amazingly, all of my brothers had survived;
I'm not sure how. But I knew that the girl with the apples had been the key to my survival.
In a place where evil seemed triumphant, one person's goodness had saved my life, had given me hope in a place where there was none.
My mother had promised to send me an angel, and the angel had come.
Eventually I made my way to England where I was sponsored by a Jewish charity, put up in a hostel with other boys who had survived the Holocaust and trained in electronics. Then I came to America , where my brother Sam had already moved. I served in the U. S. A rmy during the Korean War, and returned to New York City after two years.
By August 1957 I'd opened my own electronics repair shop. I was starting to settle in.
One day, my friend Sid who I knew from England called me.
"I've got a date. She's got a Polish friend. Let's double date."
A blind date? Nah, that wasn't for me.
But Sid kept pestering me, and a few days later we headed up to the Bronx to pick up his date and her friend Roma.
I had to admit, for a blind date this wasn't so bad. Roma was a nurse at a Bronx hospital. She was kind and smart. Beautiful, too, with swirling brown curls and green, almond-shaped eyes that sparkled with life.
The four of us drove out to Coney Island . Roma was easy to talk to, easy to be with.
Turned out she was wary of blind dates too!
We were both just doing our friends a favor. We took a stroll on the boardwalk, enjoying the salty Atlantic breeze, and then had dinner by the shore. I couldn't remember having a better time.
We piled back into Sid's car, Roma and I sharing the backseat.
As European Jews who had survived the war, we were aware that much had been left unsaid between us. She broached the subject, "Where were you," she asked softly, "during the war?"
"The camps," I said. The terrible memories still vivid, the irreparable loss. I had tried to forget. But you can never forget.
She nodded. "My family was hiding on a farm in Germany , not far from Berlin ," she told me. "My father knew a priest, and he got us Aryan papers."
I imagined how she must have suffered too, fear, a constant companion. And yet here we were both survivors, in a new world.
"There was a camp next to the farm." Roma continued. "I saw a boy there and I would throw him apples every day."
What an amazing coincidence that she had helped some other boy. "What did he look like? I asked.
"He was tall, skinny, and hungry. I must have seen him every day for six months."
My heart was racing. I couldn't believe it.
This couldn't be.
"Did he tell you one day not to come back because he was leaving Schlieben?"
Roma looked at me in amazement. "Yes!"
"That was me!"
I was ready to burst with joy and awe, flooded with emotions. I couldn't believe it! My angel.
"I'm not letting you go." I said to Roma. And in the back of the car on that blind date, I proposed to her. I didn't want to wait.
"You're crazy!" she said. But she invited me to meet her parents for Shabbat dinner the following week.
There was so much I looked forward to learning about Roma, but the most important things I always knew: her steadfastness, her goodness. For many months, in the worst of circumstances, she had come to the fence and given me hope. Now that I'd found her again, I could never let her go.
That day, she said yes. And I kept my word. After nearly 50 years of marriage, two children and three grandchildren, I have never let her go.
Herman Rosenblat of Miami Beach , Florida

This story is being made into a movie called The Fence.
This e-mail is intended to reach 40 million people world-wide.


Sunday in Virginia

On Sunday of our DC trip, we went to a ward about 5 miles from our hotel, Crystal City Ward. It was a fairly large ward with a lot of young families. Relief Society was so large we met in the chapel and then divided into two classes. The meetinghouse was a large, two-story, colonial-looking red-brick building. We enjoyed our visit there.

In the afternoon, we drove to Martin and Sybil's apartment and and they directed my driving (I did all the driving because of Rod's injuries) on a tour of Vienna, VA, where they had previously lived. We saw their old house and some beautiful semi-rural areas with lush foliage. They showed us a popular fresh produce open-air market that had a wide variety of locally grown apples. Rod and I went back later in the week to purchase some apples to bring home. We got Winesap, Nittany ?, York, Jonagold. Very good apples.
We went to dinner at a Thai restaurant - a first for Rod and me. We found the food to our liking. Then it was back to the hotel to rest for the long day of site-seeing ahead of us.

As we were planning this vacation, we decided that with such a long hotel stay we wanted to be sure and have comfortable beds to sleep in. Radisson has "select-comfort" beds (you know, the ones were you pick you level of firmness) like we have at home so we splurged and chose to stay there. We had requested a regular room with a king bed. When we checked in, we were informed there were no king rooms available and we had been upgraded to a suite. Because we had already paid for the room (it was a package deal purchased back in June) we didn't have to pay anything extra. However, the only thing "suite" about the room was it was large and had a couch and two comfortable easy chairs. The bathroom was the usual small hotel room size. And, you had two choices when it came to parking your car -- on the street with metered parking during the day ($1.00/hr 6 AM - 6 PM with a 2-hour limit) or pay $18/day in the parking garage. We chose the latter. We also used the Metro train system to maneuver DC. It was comfortable and roomy but, by the end of our stay, we were glad to be headed home.

Marine Corps Memorial

Saturday, October 11 ~~ We left Tucson, AZ at 7:00 AM PDT, had a 1-hour layover/plane change in Atlanta, GA, and arrived at Reagan National Airport at 4:00 PM EDT. We were greeted by warm weather, beautiful skies, and my brother, Martin, and his wife, Sybil. After getting our one checked bag and acquiring our rental car (which they upgraded from a mid-size to a luxury - a Mercury Grand Marquix - without added expence) we went on a short sight-seeing excursion.
My choice, because it was close and easily accessed, was the Marine Corps Memorial. It is also known as the Flag-raising on Iwo Jima. Arlington National Cemetary is right next to it and we saw a small portion of it from outside the wall but we decided to save that tour for another day as we were tired from the long trip. We did venture by car into DC that evening to see the White House at night, but you will see those photos in a later blog. Enjoy the few photos taken of this impressive memorial at

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Our Nation's Capitol

The Capitol - Washington, D.C.

We are back from our trip to Washington, D.C. and enjoyed seeing the sites. Because we saw so much and took so many photos, I will be writing several posts over the next few days highlighting areas of interest. Check in to see what we saw.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

How's Rod doing?

I get asked that at least twice a day. As you can see, for a man with 5 broken ribs and shoulder blade, he's doing OK. He has moderate shoulder pain and has a hard time getting a good night's sleep with his back hurting. He went to a follow-up Dr. visit Monday and was given the news that he will be off work 2-3 months. Apparently the shoulder break, while not needing surgery, is quite uncommon. The bone at the top of the scapula is fractured (hardly ever happens) and then the fracture travels downward to about the middle of the shoulder blade itself. He will be starting physical therapy as soon as they can work him in. Luckily it can be done in Benson instead of having to travel to Tucson twice a week.

All of his abrasions, except knees, are healed. His knees will need at least another week for complete recovery. Now we just wait to see how much our insurance will pay and what our part will be. I hope we don't have to take out a home equite loan, but with the helicopter ride to Tucson, who knows.

We will be flying to DC on Saturday. It should be interesting for Rod being cramped in an airplane seat for 3-4 hours on the flight from Tucson to Atlanta. He may have to pace the aisles. Still debating whether to take the laptop with us so I can blog our vacation.





"Dr" Abbey tending to Grandpa's wounds
She is interested in all things medical.

Family fun

Well, I blew it again. We had almost the whole family here this past Sunday to celebrate our Sep-Oct birthdays (Michelle - age 21, Riley - 23, Caitlyn - 5, and Christy - 30 [the forever age]) Can you believe it? In taking pictures throughout the day, NOT ONE did I get of Caitlyn or Danica. Plenty of Emma, Abbey, Isabel and Olivia and even a few of the adults, but not a single shot includes my Wyoming-born sweeties. Well, they will be staying with us after Michael and Michelle's wedding so Derek and Christy can have a concert date and I will take exclusive photos then. So, enjoy the few I've loaded here and then go to the link to see the rest.

Emma and Abbey staying interested in General Conference with activity pages. Olivia and Isabel playing with Aunt Margo.


Making Caitlyn's birthday cake. Nora making the fondant (melted marshmallows, powdered sugar and water), Christy cutting out the "Mario" pattern and Derek painting on the finishing touches.
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